You love each other. You're just exhausted from having the same fight over and over.

Couples Therapy for Neurodivergent & High-Achieving Couples

Your Relationship Can Have a New Story

When you're successful in so many areas of life, it's frustrating that your most important relationship feels stuck.

Maybe you communicate well at work but can't seem to talk to your partner without things escalating. Maybe one of you feels constantly criticized while the other feels unheard, overwhelmed, or alone. Maybe ADHD, autism, or other forms of neurodivergence are affecting the way you communicate, connect, manage responsibilities, or handle conflict.

You don't have to keep living in the same cycle.

I help couples understand the patterns underneath their conflict, reduce blame and resentment, and build a relationship that feels safer, more connected, and more like a partnership.

When Loving Each Other Isn't the Problem

You may still love your partner deeply. You may even look like a great couple from the outside. But privately, things feel different. You keep having the same argument: one of you wants to talk, while the other shuts down.

You feel like you're carrying the relationship—or the household—by yourself. Your partner says you criticize too much, but you feel like nothing changes unless you say something.

Small misunderstandings turn into major conflicts. You feel more like roommates, adversaries, or parent-and-child than partners. And the harder you both try to fix it, the more stuck you seem to become.

This doesn't necessarily mean your relationship is broken. It may mean you've become caught in a pattern that neither of you knows how to change.

Virtual couples therapy for clients throughout Georgia, including Atlanta.


I Help Couples Make Sense of Their Negative Cycle

Couples often come to therapy focused on the latest argument:

  • Communication
  • Household responsibilities
  • Parenting
  • Sex and intimacy
  • Money
  • Work stress
  • Emotional availability
  • Trust
  • Feeling appreciated
  • One partner shutting down
  • The other partner pursuing harder

But underneath the argument is often something deeper:

"Do I matter to you?"

"Can I count on you?"

"Do you understand me?"

"Am I safe with you?"

"Will you be there when I need you?"

Together, we'll slow the cycle down and begin to understand what's happening underneath it—without turning either partner into the problem.

My approach is grounded in Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) and informed by the ways attachment, communication, emotional processing, and neurodivergence can shape relationships.

Let’s work together.

About Jennifer Hanchey

I’m Jen, a licensed professional counselor specializing in couples counseling. 

My passion is helping couples and individuals understand their current story of shut down or anger so that healing can begin as we write a new story together.

Let's connect online and get started